'Large Burly Man' Lurking in Disney Ladies' Room . . .
. . . Should Make Everyone Stop and Think
by Megan Fox: It's all fun and games until there's a burly guy in your bathroom peering through that one-inch gap in the stalls when you've got your panties around your ankles. What we all said would happen has happened, and at Disneyland no less. When the transgendered came out swinging for the right to use whatever bathroom they want to, some of us said this is not a good idea. And our reasons weren't that we don't want men who live as women to feel comfortable or safe but because we knew (those of us who were born women and live with the very real threat of male violence every day) that predators would take advantage of this new "anything goes" policy and waltz into our safe spaces to violate us and no one would be able to do anything about it.
And now it's happened. Kristen Quintrall Lavin at The Get Real Mom recounted her terrible experience.
I was off to the side waiting with the two boys, when I noticed a man walk into the restroom. My first thought was “Oh shit, he’s walked in the wrong restroom by mistake. lol” He took a few more steps, at which point he would’ve definitely noticed all the women lined up and still kept walking. My next thought was, “Maybe he’s looking for his wife…or child and they’ve been in here a while.” But he didn’t call out any names or look around. He just stood off to the side and leaned up against the wall. At this point I’m like, “WTF? Ok there is definitely a very large, burly man in a Lakers jersey who just walked in here. Am I the only one seeing this?" I surveyed the room and saw roughly 12 women, children in tow, staring at him with the exact same look on their faces. Everyone was visibly uncomfortable. We were all trading looks and motioning our eyes over to him…like "What is he doing in here?” Yet every single one of us was silent. And this is the reason I wrote this blog.
If this had been 5 years ago, you bet your ass every woman in there would’ve been like, “Ummm what are you doing in here?”, but in 2017? The mood has shifted. We had been culturally bullied into silenced. Women were mid-changing their baby’s diapers on the changing tables and I could see them shifting to block his view. But they remained silent. I stayed silent. We all did. Every woman who exited a stall and immediately zeroed right in on him...said nothing. And why? B/c I and I’m sure all the others were scared of that “what if”. What if I say something and he says he "identifies as a woman" and then I come off as the intolerant asshole at the happiest place on earth? So we all stood there, shifting in our uncomfortableness…trading looks. I saw two women leave the line with their children. Still nothing was said. An older lady said to me out loud, “What is he doing in here?” I’m ashamed to admit I silently shrugged and mouthed, “I don’t know." She immediately walked out, from a bathroom she had every right to use without fear. And this is why pushing for laws to allow anyone to use whatever bathroom they identify with (this week) is absurd and dangerous. Before 2017 we shared the ladies' room with transgendered people and we either didn't know or never said anything because we knew we weren't in danger. It's something you don't talk about. You just pee and leave. But by making a capital case out of it and literally inviting anyone into female safe spaces, the government has put women and children at risk from peeping toms, rapists, pedophiles, drunks, and vagrants. Predators already capitalize and count on women's reluctance to fight back or speak out. Now it's even worse because if you do speak up, you will be labeled transphobic and predators know it. There is no doubt in my mind that the man in Disneyland was pushing boundaries and getting a thrill from the power he had to be somewhere he knew he shouldn't be, but counted on no one saying anything. This is the climate political correctness has brought to women: fear and the inability to act.
Transgendered activists are always saying, "are you going to do a genital check at the door?" Of course not! We never did this before and didn't have any problems. If I don't know, then I don't care. But if you wander into my restroom and you are clearly a man, I'm going to assume you are there to do me harm and I will take whatever action is necessary to stop you until the cops drag you out or you run. I would encourage all women to do the same. Men do not belong in our bathrooms. Violence against women is a very real and scary thing and the people doing most of that violence are men. I'm not willing to admit any man into a place where I am vulnerable and unprotected in a partial state of undress and usually with my children. Hell to the no.
Call me whatever name you want, but if you're a man ... stay out of my bathroom or face the consequences. I won't be cowed into silence or inaction by the threat of name-calling. Any man going into a ladies' room (especially in a carry state) is taking a very big chance that he will not come out alive. If the government isn't going to do their job and protect us from predators, it's time to protect ourselves. Stop tolerating this, ladies. It's a shame that those women in Disneyland just stood there and allowed that predator to scare them into submission.
Disneyland should think very carefully about how to handle this in the future because the liability is a nightmare for them. The last thing they want is a "How I Was Raped on My Disney Vacation (and I Don't Mean Financially)" story to pop up. It is outrageous that a man was able to walk into a ladies' room in a place that should be crawling with security and cameras, since you can't bring in any self-defense weapons or tools. How were there not three Disney security officers popping out of an underground lair to nab this guy before he got through the door? Has Disney just turned their backs on the safety of women and children in their parks? These are questions that need to be answered before anyone books their next trip to see the mouse.
The moral of this story is this: SPEAK UP, LADIES! If a man walks in the bathroom, you don't stop to think about it, you start yelling "GET OUT!" while dialing 911. Take whatever criticism any loon wants to throw at you. Your life and the lives of your children are worth more than public opinion.
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by Megan Fox: It's all fun and games until there's a burly guy in your bathroom peering through that one-inch gap in the stalls when you've got your panties around your ankles. What we all said would happen has happened, and at Disneyland no less. When the transgendered came out swinging for the right to use whatever bathroom they want to, some of us said this is not a good idea. And our reasons weren't that we don't want men who live as women to feel comfortable or safe but because we knew (those of us who were born women and live with the very real threat of male violence every day) that predators would take advantage of this new "anything goes" policy and waltz into our safe spaces to violate us and no one would be able to do anything about it.
And now it's happened. Kristen Quintrall Lavin at The Get Real Mom recounted her terrible experience.
If this had been 5 years ago, you bet your ass every woman in there would’ve been like, “Ummm what are you doing in here?”, but in 2017? The mood has shifted. We had been culturally bullied into silenced. Women were mid-changing their baby’s diapers on the changing tables and I could see them shifting to block his view. But they remained silent. I stayed silent. We all did. Every woman who exited a stall and immediately zeroed right in on him...said nothing. And why? B/c I and I’m sure all the others were scared of that “what if”. What if I say something and he says he "identifies as a woman" and then I come off as the intolerant asshole at the happiest place on earth? So we all stood there, shifting in our uncomfortableness…trading looks. I saw two women leave the line with their children. Still nothing was said. An older lady said to me out loud, “What is he doing in here?” I’m ashamed to admit I silently shrugged and mouthed, “I don’t know." She immediately walked out, from a bathroom she had every right to use without fear.
Transgendered activists are always saying, "are you going to do a genital check at the door?" Of course not! We never did this before and didn't have any problems. If I don't know, then I don't care. But if you wander into my restroom and you are clearly a man, I'm going to assume you are there to do me harm and I will take whatever action is necessary to stop you until the cops drag you out or you run. I would encourage all women to do the same. Men do not belong in our bathrooms. Violence against women is a very real and scary thing and the people doing most of that violence are men. I'm not willing to admit any man into a place where I am vulnerable and unprotected in a partial state of undress and usually with my children. Hell to the no.
Call me whatever name you want, but if you're a man ... stay out of my bathroom or face the consequences. I won't be cowed into silence or inaction by the threat of name-calling. Any man going into a ladies' room (especially in a carry state) is taking a very big chance that he will not come out alive. If the government isn't going to do their job and protect us from predators, it's time to protect ourselves. Stop tolerating this, ladies. It's a shame that those women in Disneyland just stood there and allowed that predator to scare them into submission.
Disneyland should think very carefully about how to handle this in the future because the liability is a nightmare for them. The last thing they want is a "How I Was Raped on My Disney Vacation (and I Don't Mean Financially)" story to pop up. It is outrageous that a man was able to walk into a ladies' room in a place that should be crawling with security and cameras, since you can't bring in any self-defense weapons or tools. How were there not three Disney security officers popping out of an underground lair to nab this guy before he got through the door? Has Disney just turned their backs on the safety of women and children in their parks? These are questions that need to be answered before anyone books their next trip to see the mouse.
The moral of this story is this: SPEAK UP, LADIES! If a man walks in the bathroom, you don't stop to think about it, you start yelling "GET OUT!" while dialing 911. Take whatever criticism any loon wants to throw at you. Your life and the lives of your children are worth more than public opinion.
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IMAGINE THAT!
Just another of 0bama's legacies.
Phil, SPOT ON!
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